Respect

What can you say about respect, except that you should aim to get it. It becomes crucial in boy/girl relations. How a guy will treat you depends on it. I see it all the time, if a guy doesn't respect you, he will treat you like shit, if a girl doesn't respect herself then its like a guys guide to treat her like shit. It's not fair, but it is how it is. Respect is great, it is the most important thing i can offer a girl. Two girls come to mind, and I respect them wholly for it. A GOOD WOMAN is hard to find, but they are the worthy ones. I see guys get with a girl, then a girl feel all good about it, or whatever, and then a guy turn around and put all the smooth talk he just gave her aside and rip on her so bad behind her back, telling them all the details about what happen. For the life of me I cannot fathom the appeal of that, or the stupidity of not realizing that. Yes they are some good guys out there, but a whole bunch are not, and they use and use and hide behind alcohol or whatever reason and just mistreat and mistreat and i see girl after girl fall and fall over and for it time and time again and then wonder and wish for the alternative. "why can't I find a nice guy" blaming their luck for ending up with some ass. How can you tell them "it's your fault, your picking one." What do you say to the ones who do not choose the good ones, or the nice ones for not being as good looking or as muscular or being just a friend.

Call it immaturity, call it being young. But when will they choose real, and genuine, even if its not a 'Brad Pit.' My answer to that question is: A GOOD WOMAN is hard to find, and all other ones, at least by me, will be passed by.